Importance of Human Relations and having a social life

Man is an eminently social being, he needs to survive, grow, develop, and be happyof their bonding and interaction with their peers. Human relationships are essential and responsible for the success that a person has in various aspects of his life, as well as not having them include failure and social isolation.

The role of the nuclear family

The first human relationships we establish are with our primary family: parents, siblings, uncles, grandparents, and then, As we grow, this universe of relationships becomes larger and more complex, with its benefits and disadvantages, clear.

The primary social group to which the family belongs provides the human being As soon as he was born, the satisfaction of his most basic needs, the protection and containment that he demands at his young age, requiring them to satisfy the needs of food, shelter and hygiene to the years of life in which one can fend for oneself.

Meet new people, and manifest the training built -and in permanent construction-

In the

adolescence it becomes a necessity to interact with other peers, with whom we share the same problems and joys, but also with adults, parents and teachers, from whom we receive orders, teachings, and who we must respect in this process of growth and education

In order to do this, it is necessary for the individual to be able to establish a communication, being able to be verbal as well as non-verbal (through signs or gestures) being the way in which we relate to a subject by issuing a message and receiving a response, and initiating an exchange of information that may have different tenors depending on the need we have to carry out such bond, being able to vary from a simple commercial operation, to one involving issues affective and sentimental. If something fails in this aspect, the relationship with others will be affected at whatever level and, of course, it will hinder the person's satisfactory development.

disagreements that hurt

When people understand each other by communicating, beyond sharing positions or not regarding what we think, it is possible that we reach an agreement, but if this does not happen, either due to our lack of communication or predisposition, or because the other person hurts us, we will be facing a serious problem.

Today, to define this last problem of human relations, it is spoken in terms of toxic or stormy relationships, and just as its name tells us anticipates it are characterized precisely by producing harmful effects on the emotional level, for example: stress, sadness, depression, anguish, among others paintings.

This situation can occur within the framework of a relationship, friendship or family.

One of the members of the couple, a friend, or a member of the family develops inappropriate behaviors that trigger a situation of psychological vulnerability in the other, or others, complicating the normal development of the relationship and the emotional stability of those involved, obviously.

The main obstacle one faces when immersed in a toxic relationship is the impossibility of recognize it because love, many times, generates that one cannot accept or want to see reality: that this relationship it hurts

So, no matter how much the rest tells us, we cannot assume it, a situation that complicates solving it.

Excessive control in everything, manipulation, contempt and contempt received for what is done or said, constant discussion, hurtful criticism, are some signs characteristics of a toxic relationship, and a warning to act before it's too late...

In some cases, and with the help of a professional, it is possible to repair a toxic relationship, however, when this is not possible, it is best to get away from that person.

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