Importance of friendship
Miscellanea / / August 08, 2023
People are social beings nature and therefore the link with peers is an imperative need, which of course occurs naturally and spontaneously.
An essential human bond, based on companionship and trust
One of the relationships that people cultivate the most throughout our lives is friendship, which basically consists of an affective bond, of trust, unconditionality, and camaraderie, between two or more people, who may or may not share ideas, interests, since their livelihood is mutual support, primarily.
Of the interpersonal relationships that people maintain, it is the most relevant because it displays the function of social support.
It is a relationship that evolves, we become friends with those who we find agreeable, with whom we share interests, and then over time the affection progresses.
The assessment of friendship as one of the most positive relationships that human beings can establish in life lies in its foundation, which is unconditionally counting on someone who accompanies and supports us when we are well, or when we are not, without distinction in it precisely.
Unfailing support in difficult times
It is in the bad moments that one takes real awareness of the value of friendship and of what is necessary to overcome them, because normally everyone is there when everything It's perfect, but when things get complicated, only true and loyal friends are the ones who stick with us. side.
The true friend who must be taken care of is the one who is happy when things are going well for us, in case, if someone who claims to be your friend is not happy about your achievements it is because he is not a true friend and it is best to walk away of the.
Having friends makes us happier and healthier.
The positive impact of this bond on a person is easy to appreciate because the person who has friends is happier and more empathic, meanwhile, this also has a positive impact on their physical health and mental.
People usually have friends from different contexts: school, the neighborhood, the club, work, and friends who have been with us for a long time, or relatively recently.
A relationship that breaks with: betrayal, absence
Betrayal or lack of accompaniment at a difficult time are usually the most common causes for which camaraderie breaks down or weakens.
And the loss of trust in a friend due to a betrayal usually has no turning back, it being very complex to restore the relationship.
Another problem that must be faced and overcome is the passage of time, given that work commitments and other types of personal information that lead us to take time and presence away from friends, a fact that clearly resents the relationship.
If there is no time, you have to look for it, and in those moments where it is more difficult to find one, you can replace physical presence with a phone call, or a message, thanks to the kindness that we offers the technology in this sense.
And to show a friend that we care and love him, we have to lend attention to his state of mind, accompany him if he has problems, and remember all those special dates in his life such as his birthday, or greeting him on a friend's day, that will make him feel that we love him and that we are near.
It is one of the most varied, subjective and enriched ties of people, since although family is not chosen, friendship is, and we all choose who to relate to, how, who to trust and with whom we will have help or advice when we need it most, in addition to sharing different moments of our lives beyond the family, from entertainment to painful situations.
Although they can be considered different friendly situations in different stages of our life, the truth is that not all of them are established to have a friendship, but for this there must be a sense of belonging and a link between both members of the same and a consent between both of them to do so.
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