Book Summary More About The Image Of Success
Literature / / July 04, 2021
Here is the summary of the book "More on the image of success":
From: GABRIELA VARGAS
I found reading this book interesting, since the author touches on topics of general interest and she provides us, without leaving aside never the internal aspect of oneself, very good practical advice about verbal and non-verbal communication, relationships interpersonal, social and business protocol, courtesy and good manners, self-esteem and various life situations everyday; tips that understanding their meaning and learning to apply them properly will allow us to publicize and transmit positively our essence, thus achieving an image of success, an image that achieves, convinces, enchants and leads to the top of the Mountain.
Most of us forget that there is non-verbal communication and therefore that unconsciously it is this that expresses everything we are, without barriers. In most cases we do not know it and consequently we do not know how to use it to our benefit to achieve the objectives. In words we say something, but in attitudes, in the way we dress, speak, relate to each other, walk, we transmit an image with a message that contradicts us and that makes us unreliable, conformist, incapable of reaching the goal for others. success.
Fortunately or unfortunately, at all times our life revolves around a society (we are social beings by nature) and to To belong to it we must follow certain rules of behavior and coexistence and it is important to know them, cultivate them and apply them in a the most profitable way for us and in this way transmit to others what we really want to transmit, what we are and what we are not contradict us.
Achieving the above is not an easy task, it implies first of all a deep knowledge of ourselves ourselves in order to fully exploit our strengths and work intensely weaknesses. As it is well said "to look good we have to feel good", all of our interior is reflected in our exterior, so to project the image we want we must first work on our inside.
Every day each of us is involved in endless activities where we live very clear examples of this, both personally and through third parties. One can clearly identify people by learning to observe.
In short, communication is the fundamental tool that human beings have to relate to others and it is the non-verbal the one that expresses more, we have the clear example of a hug, a kiss, how much we do not express to the people of that mode. Lack of communication results in endless problems and fights that we would avoid if we knew communicate properly, if we break down our barriers and face fear and lack of security in ourselves.
One part of the book that caught my attention was chapter 6 on the subject of communication, which talks about the meaning of colors, I effectively corroborated that the preference for a color reflects a personality.
I liked the fact that the author put a famous phrase at the beginning of each chapter, because in a few words it gives us to understand the importance and the true meaning of what we are about to read, as the author says, this is a book that goes beyond superficialities, promotes exploring the depths of each one of us.