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Consoling is an action that human beings often develop towards other peers, especially with those with whom we are united by a friendship or any other relationship of affected Y Dear, and we are also usually subject to it in certain circumstances.

Basically, it consists of relieving your pain that a person feels for some tragic situation that he has suffered, for some draft that did not go well or for any other situation that causes sadness.

When a close relative dies, tremendous pain is usually felt and, for example, close people, friends and family, usually display this action.
Failing to enter a college Because the required entrance exam was not passed, it can also be a cause of grief that needs the consolation of someone friend, partner or family member.

A need that arises from pain or misfortune

As we can see, always, the action of consoling will be triggered by some unfortunate and sad situation or event. That is, no one will need to be consoled when things are going well for them, but we need consolation in the face of sad circumstances in life.

The comfort that someone receives will make the pain felt less and less, feeling accompanied by someone, with a hug, a caress or a word of encouragement is very important when it comes to overcoming times difficult.

Friends, family and those who love us give us comfort

Anyone can become the comforter of another, but as we have already indicated, the people who are closest and who we love are those who are usually close and those who normally provide this support for so important.

Whenever someone is comforted by pain, grief or displeasure, that unpleasant feeling will decrease and the person will feel stronger to move forward and of course with less regret than felt.

So, it is very important to count and be surrounded by friends, relatives who love us well and who when something bad happens to us, rush to be close to us to offer us a word of encouragement, your company or a nice and strong hug.

On the other hand, we must emphasize that in addition to people, material things can often become consolations. "I'm going to console myself with a chocolate cake"

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